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In Memory of
Christopher "Papa" Don Gay
1966 - 2025
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Monday, July 7, 2025
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David, Kelley, & Genevieve planted 3 trees in memory of Christopher "Papa" Gay
Sunday, July 6, 2025
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Sending our deepest condolences, we are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all.
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Andre` Jourdain posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, November 5, 2025
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This comes late but I just learned Chris has passed away. We worked together at a kitchen cabinet maker in Ashland, and Chris was a great man, a fantastic supervisor, and most importantly, a good human being with his heart in the right place. His glass of water was always half full never half empty, and I will absolutely miss his big smile! May Chris rest in peace, and my deepest condolences to Nikki and her family.
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Jean Moncus posted a condolence
Friday, July 11, 2025
I'm 73 y.o. I was stranded on Hwy.9 with a flat tire. Chris came along and stopped. My spare was dry-rotted. He went to Lineville, bought me a tire and put it on my car. He wouldn't let me pay him. He said; "God has been good to me. Pass it on." He was a wonderful man that I'll never forget. God bless his family.
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Jane Gross posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
My heart was so sad when I heard about
Chris. Stacey, Haley, Ethan, Katelyn my prayers are with you and your family.
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Kevin O'Malley posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
My deepest sympathies for your loss. I served with Chief Gay in Iraq in 2008/09. I thought very highly of Chris as a both SeaBee and a human being. It was a pleasure to serve with him and I'm glad that he was briefly part of my life. My condolences.
LT Kevin O'Malley
CEC, USNR (Ret.)
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Bev Perry posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, July 7, 2025
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Robert Crary posted a condolence
Monday, July 7, 2025
Chris and I deployed to Iraq back in 2008. We were able to share many stories about our Families. After the deployment, we went home to our Families and only communicated by way of FB. He certainly was, without a doubt, a True Christian Man and Family Man. My sincere condolences to his Family. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you All at this time. God Bless.
Bob Crary,
US Navy Chief, Retired
Rest in Peace Seabee
We Have the Watch
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John kennedy posted a condolence
Monday, July 7, 2025
Chris and I were roommates for time while serving in Iraq in 2008, a gentleman and a true Seabee,
We shared many nights after a long day in the sand swapping stories of family and life.
May Chris rest in peace and my deepest sympathies to you all.
EOC John Kennedy USN (retired)
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Carolyn McCarley Driver posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, July 7, 2025
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Tonia Ayers posted a condolence
Monday, July 7, 2025
My heart is breaking for all of you. May your mind find peace in your memories of Chris.
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Brandon Isbell posted a condolence
Monday, July 7, 2025
Chris was a beloved friend. His family is dear to us and we grieve today but also rejoice because of the heavenly reward that he received. Chris and I worked together on a few projects. He was as consistent as the sun. I loved the spirit he carried himself with. He was considerate, kind, welcoming, and warm, and would stop to ask about me regardless of how busy he was. Chris will be missed here on earth, and we look forward to our heavenly homecoming when we get to see him again.
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Rusty Herring posted a condolence
Sunday, July 6, 2025
I had the privilege of meeting Chris through a construction project. He cared deeply about his work and it showed in how meticulous he was in the details. He treated everyone on the job site with respect, regardless of their status. When Chris talked about his family, children and grandkids, his eyes brightened with a smile. It was very evident they were cherished and deeply loved by him. He was a genuine man and will be missed. Thoughts and prayers for Chris’s family.
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Sunday, July 6, 2025
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He was a great man. Miss you brother
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Renee Parsons posted a condolence
Sunday, July 6, 2025
My thoughts and prayers are with Nikki and her family. I know Chris loved and adored his wife and family and will be deeply missed.
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Sunday, July 6, 2025
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Jim Trostle posted a condolence
Sunday, July 6, 2025
I'll always remember Chief Gay's sense of humor. He was a great guy to serve with.
My condolences to your family.
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Orlando Saffold Jr posted a condolence
Sunday, July 6, 2025
Chief Gay was really awesome. Always helpful and funny Really going to miss his sense of humor, smile and everything. Truly is a stand up guy and really enjoyed serving with him in the Seabees
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Jennifer George posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, July 6, 2025
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So very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for peace and comfort.
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Sharon McVay posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, July 6, 2025
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Machelle Gilmore posted a condolence
Sunday, July 6, 2025
Praying for comfort and understanding for Nikki and family. I have fond memories of Chris. He was always smiling and telling jokes! He always had a smile on his face!
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Daphne Jordan posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, July 5, 2025
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Alisha Torrez posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, July 5, 2025
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Mr. Chris treated me like one of his own growing up. Every Sunday, he and Mrs. Nikki would pick me up for church. He was such a jokester, always ready with a prank or a laugh. And of course, we all knew when he pushed it a little too far— the moment Mrs. Nikki said, “Christopher Don!”
He was the biggest family man I’ve ever known — loving, loyal, and full of heart. He made a lasting impact on everyone around him, and he will be deeply missed.
My heart is with Linny and the entire family. I love y’all so much.
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Glenn and Patricia Prince posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, July 5, 2025
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Deborah Erwin Williams posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, July 5, 2025
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I am so sorry for your heartache! My heart hurts for you all! You are all in my thoughts & prayers! May God wrap HIS loving arms around each of you!
Deborah Erwin Williams
Wadley High School Class of 1985
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Stacey Richardson posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, July 5, 2025
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