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Allyson Hudgins uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 2, 2024
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Allyson Hudgins uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 2, 2024
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I haven’t thought of you much the last few years. Your name may have come up in some story of way back when here and there. About a week, maybe 2, before you died, you were weighing on my mind a lot. I felt a strong urge to reach out to you. For some reason I was worried for you. I didn’t understand it. I just wanted to tell you that it wasn’t all bad and I forgive you. So I messaged an account on Facebook that had recently added me , Tim Harmon. I asked if it was Tim Tim or daddy Tim? It was your dad. So I went ahead and searched outside of my friends list and seen on your profile that you were with Samantha. My intentions were never to be messy or disrespect and I decided there was no way to go about this without it seeming anything but. So I shrugged it off. A day later you died. I cried for 2 days. I was mad at myself for not reaching out to you. I talked to my sister about it and she called it a soul connection. I’ve known you since I was 14. We dated in high school. You were the last time I was a family with my kids. And as crazy as it sounds saying this, you were the last time I had a normal life. I thought of your kids as I cried and wondered how much time you’ve had with them since we had spent the day with your mom, Lea, before she left for California years ago. I never told you this, but your mom had told me that day that your son, Zhane, was supposed to more or less tell you how much of a disappointment you are as a father. I feared your reaction if that moment ever came. But it never did. We had an amazing day with them. They were so sweet and well mannered, truly great kids. We said our good byes, and climbed in my explorer. Before you could put it in reverse, Zhane said “Daddy wait” and he came down them steps and ran to the explorer, stepped on that running board and reached in the window with both arms and hugged your neck so tightly and said “I’m proud of you Daddy”. You hugged him back but wouldn’t say a word. Which I knew it was in effort to keep from anybody hearing the tears you were choking back, but that’s ok because I was in the passenger seat crying for you. I don’t know if we ever got to share the pictures with your mom of that day but I’ll attach them with this memory. Not too long after that, we were about to break up and I was kicking you out and in an effort to save our relationship you said “let’s get clean”. That day we flushed our drugs. We did that. We got clean. Even if it was for just 3 weeks. That was your idea. People say a lot of bad things about you. I’ve said a lot of bad things about you. But there was also a lot of good things about you. When you gave your loyalty it was true. I knew because I put a spy app on your phone when I took you back after cheating the first time. Never, not even once, did you falter. You were the truest version of you than anybody I’ve ever known. Crazy as fuck… sometimes even psychotic. You had a confidence that was charming and slightly arrogant that made you so irresistible. You were funny. Goofy sometimes. I have so many memories of you that make me bust out laughing. My daughter and you had this cute connection. Everytime one would enter the room with another y’all would make like a dinosaur chomping sound or some shit. It was adorable. You were definitely one of a kind. There will never be anybody like you Tim Tim. Thank you for the memories, the good and the bad. I’ll forever love and miss you.
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Gena Thomas uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, April 27, 2024
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Just a few of the many pictures I have of you. ❤️
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Gena Thomas posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
I’ve been putting this off because I’m still having trouble believing it’s true. I’ve loved you like a son from the time we met. You would walk in the house and always make me smile. My heart hurts at the thought of you being gone but I know someday I’ll see you again. Until then, know that I love you.
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Samantha Harmon uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 21, 2024
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We miss you so much!
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Samantha Harmon posted a condolence
Sunday, April 21, 2024
Bubba, I miss you so much already. None of this seems real. I just keep waiting on you to walk in and say what y’all crying about. We may not have talked all the time. But I loved you more than anything! You knew that!! I’ve never had to be in this world without you. And that hurts. You were Everleighs favorite person in the entire world. It breaks my heart that she will never get to see you again. Our family will never be the same. You’re with your favorite person now! Give pawpaw a big hug for me! See you on the other side.
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Donna Harmon lit a candle
Thursday, April 18, 2024
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Jessica Gamel posted a condolence
Thursday, April 18, 2024
Tim Tim I remember playing foosball for hours at Hood's house from sunup to sundown! I remember your first birthday out me and Mike hung out with you and took you to Taco Bell and just stayed at your grandmother's house all day doing nothing gosh I'm going to miss you this doesn't seem real
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Samantha Allen posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
I’m lost ….. we had so many goals baby, we was suppose to go to rehab together, get married ! I’m so sorry, I love you don’t give up on me! I’m gonna do this for you & my Brooke Brooke ! Im sorry! I’m so sorry ! I love you !!!! This a forever thing. Until I see you again, OHHHH NOWWWWW !!!!
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Samantha Allen uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
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my Babylove, you’ll never be forgotten ! Do you hear me ? Me and Brooke Brooke love you more than you’ll ever know !!! Pleasee come back to me !!! Pleasee I love you, I need you !!!!
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Virginia's Young uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
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You will forever be in our hearts. Fly high. Love PHAT-CAT and KRACKER
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Cassie Tomczek uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
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I’ll never forget when we were in high school and MawMaw kept feeding you freezer burned doughnuts, but you kept eating them instead of hurting her feelings.
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Shahani Lohorn lit a candle
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
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Keeping the family in our prayers
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John ford posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
If y’all need anything pls let me no Tim Tim was my step brother an I got nothing but love for him this break my heart. My number is +17069129413 if u get this tim give me a call pls I am so sorry this has happened John ford
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Heather Farrar posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
I am truly sorry for this loss. Praying for comfort for the family and friends. RIP Tim Tim
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Carol Harmon posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
TimTim you had a heart of Gold.. You used to come to our house when you needed something to eat or the time your car broke down on our dirt road and you needed us to push it back here.. You will be missed... Prayers for your Mama & Family.
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Kenneth Harmon posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
Fly high, see you on the other side. -your little cousin Kenneth Harmon Jr
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Alto Thompson posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
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My friend you are so young and it's truly hard to believe you are gone, you have have eating here, napped, and just stop by to say hey. I just want you to know I'm glad to have known you I love you son and I will definitely pray for each family member, may your mile wide smile and golden heart never be forgotten.
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Anthony Smith lit a candle
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
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I'm lost for words at hearing this
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Jessica Staples lit a candle
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
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Oh my heart hurts little cuz!!! This isn't fair at all.. You will be missed all I can think about is growing up driving you crazy saying cool whip!!! Boy I wish i could do that now!!! Then when we were older on bud Cummings Road when you made me sit at the tracks to come up with the stop sign phrase!!! This just isn't right but now you are free Fly High Cousin until we meet again RIp
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Jeff and Jenny Young posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
Tim Tim, you will never know how much we do love you. You where in my life for all my adult years. You where always there and even when times where so hard we would find a way to laugh threw this. Not many people got to know the real you you had a heart of Gold. You had a smile that would just light up the room. I will always remember you, We miss you so much . Love PHAT-CAT &KRACKER
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Dustly Adams posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
No more struggles now more worries no more demons for u to fight just like a lil brother all my life u were the only person in the world to ever look up to me this still feels so in real I love u lil bro I’ll see u again
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Jason Young posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
I love u bro 10 toe strong always head up fam man ima miss u
A Memorial Tree was planted for Timothy "Tim Tim" Harmon, Jr
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
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The family of Timothy "Tim Tim" Truman Harmon, Jr uploaded a photo
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
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Crystal Dunn Dunn posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
Tim Tim I’m going to miss you so much I know all of us cousins have moved away and don’t hardly speak but I still love you I remember spending the summers together every summer I’m going to miss you cuz I love you
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Kallie Young posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
Bubba, your uncanny knack for humour made the world a lighter place. The memories we had will always be in our hearts. Jason, the kids and I love & miss you always. Soar high!
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Donna Harmon posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
Oh Timothy, my quirky nephew, who could transform the gloomiest days into a stand-up comedy show. Although your departure is heart-wrenching, just picturing heaven’s angels laughing in sync with your jokes brings warmth to our hearts. We will always remember and cherish these moments of pure joy and laughter you gifted us with during your time on Earth.
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