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Josh and Jamie Lavoie lit a candle
Thursday, October 29, 2015
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John Thompson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 10, 2015
Praying that God will cover the family with His love during this time of grieving.
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David S. Mansfield posted a condolence
Thursday, October 8, 2015
So sorry to hear this horrible news. I refereed some of his basketball games in HS. He was a good player.
Thoughts and prayers to all touched by Jay.
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Gayle Myers Hendrix Perry posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 7, 2015
Please know that I am praying for all of you during this difficult time. I was working at Beggs & Lane when Jay was born and know how proud you were. God Bless!
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James and Sheri White posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 6, 2015
Pat,
Please know that James and I are truly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how difficult of a time this is for you and Jay's dad. Know that God has opened his arms to welcome him in to the eternal life walking with God; he will be there waiting for you when it is your time. May time soften your loss but your memory of your precious son will never die. Prayers be with you.
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Pam Nolan posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Pat I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers to your family.
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Denise Moffitt posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jay was a wonderful young man. I never ran into him that he wasn't smiling and his smile warmed your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with Pat and family. May Jay rest in peace.
Denise
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Tim Bullington posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I was Jay's baseball coach at East Hill for his junior & senior years, and he was a great young man that I really enjoyed coaching. I am truly sorry to hear about his passing and my prayers are with the family during these trying days. May God shed His grace upon you through Christ.
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Stephanie Tallant posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Pat, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Joel and Patty Woodcock posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
We remember Jay and his wonderful friendship to our daughters and us. We will be praying that the peace of God will wrap around each family member during this time.
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Trudy & Bob O'Brien posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
We are keeping your family in our prayers.
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Bobbye Olney Carroll posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
My heart is breaking for Jay's family. I will miss his smiling face and "War Eagle" at our Thursday Rotary meetings. He had such a giving spirit. My prayers are with you all.
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Karen and Tod Sindel posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Words fail to express our deep sorrow over this loss. Jay's gift for bringing a smile to everyone he met will never be forgotten. Our most sincere sympathies to his family, friends, and co-workers.
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Eric Lightkep posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I was very sad to hear of Jay's passing. I remember his big smile and encouragement when we played baseball together. Prayers to the family.
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Jonathan Lloyd posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I am sorry for your loss and pray that you find some comfort in the thoughts and prayers of those who care for you.
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Neil, Kathy and Chris Pape posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Pat,
We are sorry for your loss.
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Sandy Evans posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
To this sweet family I offer my sincere sympathy in your loss. Prayers are with all of you today and future days to come. In love and care, Sandy ❤
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Darlene Smith lit a candle
Monday, October 5, 2015
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Sharon Halstead posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
To Jay's family and especially his precious son, we will miss him forever but never forget him.
His smiling face, welcoming manner, genuine friendship
and Auburn football. We are truly blessed to have had the privilege to have known you!! Our hearts aches, but know we will meet again my friend- put a good word in for us!
Love you, miss you and most of all War Eagle!
Sharon and Glenn Halstead
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Kathy Breakall posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I will always remember the adorable little blond headed boy with his captivating smile.
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Maryette and Scott Huntinghouse posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
May God bless you Jay. Our love and prayers are with the Windham family.
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Kristie Anderson lit a candle
Monday, October 5, 2015
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Gone but never forgotten. The Windhams are in my thoughts and prayers today.
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Paul Entrekin posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Jay was a ray of sunshine every time I saw him. Like my oldest son, Charlie, he is gone too soon and leaves a space in our hearts that will only be refilled when we see them again in heaven. War Eagle, Jay! (And give Charlie a hug for me.)
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Susan & Keith Sheets posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Jay was a beautiful man - inside and out. Our prayers go out to his family during this difficult time. He will be missed by so many in our community.
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Susan Payne posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
We were so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of this fine young man that we called our friend. Our deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to his amazing mother, Pat, and all his friends and family that had the priviledge of knowing sweet Jay. Our prayers to all.
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Jeanette Goodrow posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
Dear Buzz, Pat and Ethan,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Jay was a wonderful person, loved by all who were blessed to know him. He was a wonderful father, when asked about Ethan, there was a look of pure joy on his face as he updated me. He will be missed by all, but my heart breaks for each of you. God bless you all through this difficult time, and know that He holds each of you. My prayers are with each of you. Love in Christ,
Jeanette
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Terri Smith posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I was on the American Cancer Society Board with Jay. He was such a talented leader and public servant. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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Jodie Butler posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
There are no words for a time like this, but we are offering our prayers for each of you. May the Lord hold you close to Him at this time.
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Warren Hanna posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
I'll always remember the times we shared as teammates in our youth. Jay was a great friend, outstanding father and provided wonderful service to his community. His laugh was contagious and his smile would always make you reciprocate the same. He touched so many lives and will always be remembered. I pray you all find peace.
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Jim Moser posted a condolence
Monday, October 5, 2015
My wife, Amy and I were so saddened to hear the news about Jay. He was a joyful and exuberant guy with such potential. He was loved, and will surely be missed, by so many. Ms. Pat and Ethan, you are in our thoughts.
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Nancy & Joe Martin posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
We are so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep Jay close in your hearts through all the beautiful memories you have with him.
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Carol Gilroy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
So very sorry for your loss. Jay was a remarkable person and he will truly be missed. It was an honor to serve with him on the American Cancer Society board.
Carol Gilroy
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Cia Kirk Kaack lit a candle
Sunday, October 4, 2015
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Judy Gafford Fehl posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Pat, I am sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my prayers.
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Sam amd Gail Furr posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
So sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Sheilah Bowman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
I can't imagine the pain of losing such a wonderful son at his early age. He brought a smile to everyone's face because of his goodness and faith in GOD.
He made everyone feel like they were the most special person in his life and we all better for having Jay in our lives. I never saw him when he didn't greet me with a big warm hug and a smile that lite up the room. I pray for his family and all his friends that GOD will lift them up and keep Jay in their hearts forever.
Peace be with you
Sheilah Bowman
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Steve and Mary Jane McClellan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
We are keeping you all in our prayers. We will miss Jay and always have wonderful memories of days at East Hill and after. Ben looked up to Jay in sports and enjoyed playing behind him. It was a delight to see him at baseball games at UWF. If we can help in any way, please let us know. Love, Steve and Mary Jane
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Wendi Westmoreland posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
He was always smiling and his laughter was contagious. My heart hurts for all of you. Your family is in my prayers.
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Jeanne Prange posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Jay was a wonderful person who had a great spirit. He lit up a room with his smile. Keeping his family and son in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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Patti Speed lit a candle
Sunday, October 4, 2015
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JRoAnne Bergman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
I knew Jay from the Wahoos baseball games and through my friendship with Renee. He was always smiling, happy and bopping all over the place visiting with friends.
Please know that I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Especially his amazing son, that Jay introduced me to at one of the games.
God Bless you and bring you all peace.
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Edwin and Debra Aromy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Pat,Deb and I really loved Jay,he always treated us like we were family,and was glad to see us everytime. His smile brightened up the room when he entered.We will miss him dearly everyday,our love and prayers go to you and your family.My Jay Rest in Peace
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Brian & Becca Phillips uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 4, 2015
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We wouldn't have had anyone else officiate our special day! We our deeply saddened by the loss of this wonderful person and great friend. Jay will be forever in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. We are truly sorry for your loss.
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Buddy and Irie Vance posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Jay had a big heart and made a difference in our community.
That contagious smile and personality will be deeply missed.
Love and Prayers
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Katie- Dr. Booker's office posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Ms. Windham,
I just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear this. I am thinking about you and praying for you. My condolences to all of your family and friends.
Katie
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Susan Busch posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Pat, My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Your memories of times together will will help to make it through. So sorry for you loss.
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Gene & Catherine Ingram posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Our heartfelt sympathies, prayers and love to family and friends of Jay, especially to Miss Pat. May God comfort you at this sad time. He will be greatly missed but always in our thoughts and prayers, and ever in our hearts.
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John Fromularo posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Jay was such an upbeat and energetic young man. I will miss him for the fun and spirit he brought to everything he did. This is too soon for him to leave us.
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Karen St Clair posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you! I am so sorry for your loss. Jay was a wonderful friend and a joy to be around.
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Uncle Jimmy & Aunt Jan lit a candle
Sunday, October 4, 2015
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Forever in our hearts and prayers...
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Carol McElroy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
We will all miss Jay's bright and friendly smile. Love and sincere condolences, The McElroy and Trahan familes
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Brian Jordan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
I love you buddy. We had so many wonderful times together that I will never forget. Rest in Peace my friend and Forever War Eagle!!
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Rick Lambert posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
We will miss you Jay at Subwest Rotary. You always brought life to the meetings.
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Cynthia Farrar posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Jay what a beautiful smile and you are so fast to share it with us. I love the way a room lights up when you walk in. Your brightest will always shine on.
Cynthia
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Holly Weber Parker posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
I am so blessed to have known Jay. I met him in 6th grade at East Hill Christian School and never lost touch. Jay is truly and unforgettable person. His smile and laughter were always so contagious. I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful person.
Prayers for your family and prayers for your son.
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Susan Levine posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
Phil and I always thought the world of Jay.
My Deepest Sympathy.
Susan Levine
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Susan Levine lit a candle
Sunday, October 4, 2015
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Sandy Devore posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
A tragic loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May God's strength and love carry you through this difficult time.
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Sunday, October 4, 2015
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Forever in heart and memories!
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Laura and Carlo Canapa posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2015
We were so saddened to hear of the loss of Jay. Jay's bright smile will be missed. Pat, May God fill your heart with his love and grace at this time. Sending hugs and Love.
Carlo and Laura
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Sue Shattuck posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
What a wonderful soul. Jay, your kindness, humor and contagious smile will never be forgotten. Your time here was too short but we will see you on the other side. Until then, visit us often. To Pat, your sweet Mother and my treasured friend, many prayers of comfort to sustain you during this heartbreaking time.
Sue Shattuck
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Tara Lauren Collins posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
Jay always put a smile on my face. He would always make me feel better when I was down and compliment me when I needed it the most.
I'll miss his huge presence he brought to a room. It would literally light up. I will miss the continued bright future he had ahead of him and all the amazing generous work he did for the community.
Jay, I keep seeing your face in my mind and wondering if their was something I could've done.
You were loved by so many. Love Always, Tara Lauren (your favorite red head) as you would say.
xoxo
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Michelle Kelly posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
We are so heartbroken for the loss of Jay. We know how bad he was hurting deep inside but we never thought this would happen. You are free my friend from the pain and anguish you have suffered throughout your life. You will be missed greatly.
RIP. You are with the Lord now.
Frank and Michelle Kelly
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Teri & Paul Remmie lit a candle
Saturday, October 3, 2015
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Walter Killingsworth posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
You will be missed by SO many people. You touched everyone you came in contact with. Thank you for being in my life.
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Mike and Darlene Immesote posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
Words can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. Jay was a wonderful human being and will be missed.
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Debbie Nelson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 3, 2015
My heart breaks for your loss. Jay was a awesome young man. My prayers and comfort for your family. Debbie Nelson
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